How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 01.07.2025 10:50

How does one succeed in life?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

That's it for today.

Why do some people enjoy being dominated?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Ask yourself:

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why do humans sweat while stressed?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Does not procrastinate.

What I need from you?

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.